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I can easily tell if someone else wants to enter a conversation. |
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I find it difficult to explain to others things that I understand easily, when they don't understand it first time. |
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I really enjoy caring for other people. |
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I find it hard to know what to do in a social situation. |
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People often tell me that I went too far in driving my point home in a discussion. |
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6. |
It doesn't bother me too much if I am late meeting a friend. |
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7. |
Friendships and relationships are just too difficult, so I tend not to bother with them. |
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8. |
I often find it difficult to judge if something is rude or polite. |
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9. |
In a conversation, I tend to focus on my own thoughts rather than on what my listener might be thinking.
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10. |
When I was a child, I enjoyed cutting up worms to see what would happen. |
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11. |
I can pick up quickly if someone says one thing but means another. |
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12. |
It is hard for me to see why some things upset people so much. |
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13. |
I find it easy to put myself in somebody else's shoes. |
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14. |
I am good at predicting how someone will feel. |
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I am quick to spot when someone in a group is feeling awkward or uncomfortable. |
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If I say something that someone else is offended by, I think that that's their problem, not mine.
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If anyone asked me if I liked their haircut, I would reply truthfully, even if I didn't like it. |
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18. |
I can't always see why someone should have felt offended by a remark. |
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19. |
Seeing people cry doesn't really upset me. |
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20. |
I am very blunt, which some people take to be rudeness, even though this is unintentional. sometimes this is intentional. |
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21. |
I don’t tend to find social situations confusing. |
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22. |
Other people tell me I am good at understanding how they are feeling and what they are thinking. |
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23. |
When I talk to people, I tend to talk about their experiences rather than my own. |
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24. |
It upsets me to see an animal in pain. |
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25. |
I am able to make decisions without being influenced by people's feelings. |
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26. |
I can easily tell if someone else is interested or bored with what I am saying. often they are bored |
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27. |
I get upset if I see people suffering on news programmes. |
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28. |
Friends usually talk to me about their problems as they say that I am very understanding. |
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29. |
I can sense if I am intruding, even if the other person doesn't tell me. |
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30. |
People sometimes tell me that I have gone too far with teasing. |
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31. |
Other people often say that I am insensitive, though I don’t always see why. Other people don't say that I am sensitive, |
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32. |
If I see a stranger in a group, I think that it is up to them to make an effort to join in. |
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33. |
I usually stay emotionally detached when watching a film. |
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34. |
I can tune into how someone else feels rapidly and intuitively. |
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35. |
I can easily work out what another person might want to talk about. |
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36. |
I can tell if someone is masking their true emotion. |
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37. |
I don't consciously work out the rules of social situations. |
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38. |
I am good at predicting what someone will do. |
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39. |
I tend to get emotionally involved with a friend's problems. |
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40. |
I can usually appreciate the other person's viewpoint, even if I don't agree with it. |
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